Most people
acknowledge their desire to work hard and make useful contributions. They want themselves
to have an effect. But whether they are actually doing so is a million dollar
question. If they are on course, they will surely be mattering.
As years tick
by, people have a tendency to kill time and hope like hell they will get a job
that they have applied for or a promotion and a hike; or for that matter, even
an appointment to their liking. They are of a my-horse-also-ran category – keep
hanging around and not exert themselves. There are people who also look forward
to a go-ahead; they may want to do more but in the absence of an acquiescence,
do not take any initiative; perhaps they need to be prompted, even if it comes
to helping out a colleague.
If you want to
make a difference, you simply cannot adopt an attitude of relax-and- hope-for-the-best.
Nobody will ever make a difference on your behalf; it is you and you alone who
has to exert and strive for it. That implies switching over from a knee-jerk to
an upbeat mode; and if you do so, you will automatically change your stance
from a discontented to a contented one. Such a change will undoubtedly be
electrifying, if not bloodcurdling; and will necessitate ingenuity on your
part.
The crucial
issue is how do you go about to make a difference in your career? You can
achieve significant results if you are:
·
Resolute:
If you are not resolute, you will never be decisive; and if you are not
decisive, you will never be able to take off. Therefore, you should be
determined to make a difference and attain all that you have been missing so
far. As you move ahead, you will shed the tendency to not consider yourself
excessively vis-à-vis other persons and begin to view them in a positive
manner. Resultantly, you will start taking initiative and not wait for
directions; you will also gradually take control of your career and steer
yourself on to the correct career path. You will emerge rejuvenated and
vibrant; and be armed with rationale and intent. All that you will now require
is a potent line of action.
·
Discerning: When you attempt
to discern anything, your imagination runs wild. And when your
imagination runs wild, you tend to come up with ideas. You should make a note
of all ideas that cross your mind. Thereafter, you should query yourself on who
all you are likely to make an effect on; a record of all such persons will have
to be made. This will help you visualize them unmistakably. The manner in which
you want to impact them will also have to be finalized along with the sequence
in which you would like to proceed. This is the line of action that you need to
follow.
·
Impacting: You do not have to wait for an
opportunity to make an impact. The iron will always be hot and you can strike
anytime because you know whatever you are required to do. You already have a.
list of people who need to be impacted as also an appropriate line of action;
you can well start off from the No. 1 on the list and keep moving ahead. It is
a general tendency amongst human beings to assume that they will be unable to
concentrate on others if they are concerned about themselves. But this is
unfounded because your spirits soar if you shift your attention to anything
other than you. When your spotlight is outwards, you will encounter hordes of
breaks and openings. And if your career happens to be at a point that is not in
consonance with your aspirations and you seek to jolt it for the better, the
opportunity knocking at your doorstep will take care of everything.
You should remember that the difference
between the impossible and the possible lies in a person's strength of mind.
There is nothing in this world that is unfeasible to assiduousness and
dexterity; and grand attainments are a result not of might but resolve. Be
determined and you will make a difference in your career.