Whatever results we achieve in life, they
are contingent on the principles and values we have relating to ourselves, our
surroundings, our conditions and our work. They also depend to a great extent
on what the future holds for us and our adeptness and capacities to influence
the turn of events.
While there could be several dogmata that
have an effect on our capability to embark upon a successful career, major ones
harboured by people are:
· I can craft my own actuality: Anything that you
select to ruminate on or experience about and eventually do that, expresses
your actuality that is originated. If you believe that your life is spinning
out of control and success is eluding you, you will tend to be left high and
dry. You will start relying only on providence. Remember that whatever you
dream gets transformed into accomplishments and from such accomplishments,
additional dreams come to you. It is
this cyclic phenomenon that generates the utmost form of existence. Success
will never become an actuality unless you get going to make your dreams into
actualities.
· I have confidence in my abilities: When you are
cognisant of your dexterities and hold them in regard, you will definitely
strive to apply them to practical situations. But if you suffer from any reservations
or qualms about them, you will always be reluctant in your outlook and in the
process fail miserably at clutching prospects that keep passing by. Hesitation
and disinclination will be quite a common occurrence when you have to move
outside a relaxed environment and experiment with new things. That is the time
when you need to be really confident about your capabilities and belief that
success is crucial for you.
· I have full faith in whatever I am doing: If you take up a
job or a career that does not hold out much significance or sense for you, it
is implausible that you will ever flourish. You need to give wings to your
passions in a manner that is of benefit to you and the world. It is an
established fact that when you engage yourself in any activity that you adore
and with a conviction that it is of import, your disposition, attitude and
life-force gets uplifted. The greatest satisfaction of life is the conviction
that tells you that are correct. In other words, you need to have full faith in
whatever you do.
· I know that I am competent enough to do better: Restraining your
self-confidence will invariably render your life unrewarding. You should be
certain of your capacity, the external boundaries of which are determined
exclusively by your individual convictions and imaginations. You may set any
number of objectives for yourself and perhaps identify several ways and means
in terms of skills and knowhow to attain them. That by themselves may not
suffice; you must have confidence in your own faculties, competencies and potentials
to attain success.
· I know I can learn more:
The knowledge base that you have today will not see you through your entire
life and career. At some stage or the other you will realise your deficiencies
and feel the need to acquire more. But if you fail to take any action, you are
bound to stagnate. You should not believe that you have crossed the learning
phase. You should feel confident in your ability to learn.
· I do believe that I can defy all tests & trials: Your career
journey will have its share of ups and downs; evidently the downs will be
exasperating and trying. Most people tend to give up in the wake of
difficulties. It is essential that you do not get bogged down when you get
stuck; any impediment or obstacle that you encounter should goad you to think
and find a way out. You must keep doing your utmost with a conviction that you
can bring about a positive alteration to the situation that you are faced with
or are in currently. If you happen to harbour any signs of a wounded outlook,
the earlier you shed them, the better it will be. Despite all the tests and
trials, you need to feel that you are the author and potentate of your own fate
and future. It is only then that you will succeed in negotiating various
hurdles in your life.
· I am an original and not a dual personality: To be successful,
it is inescapable to be an authentic and genuine individual. Even while
building your network, you have to be so. You must guard against any
presumptuousness with regard to emulating behaviour that does not gel with you.
Trying to hide behind a smokescreen is unlikely to lead you anywhere other than
failure. Your actions and deeds should be in harmony with you are and nobody
knows you better than you yourself. Remember that having a dual personality
will never help you in the identification of your shortfalls, as a result of
which, you will never be able to affect any self-improvement.
To accomplish great things in your life
and career, you need to act and also dream. You also need to plan and believe. There
are many rules for success, but none of them will work unless you do. Victory invariably
belongs to the person who is most resolute.
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