Are you yet to
taste success? Are you sure that you will be successful in the foreseeable
future? If the answer to any of these questions is not realistically optimistic,
your career is not on the correct track. Therefore, you should leave no stone
unturned to work towards achieving success and not waste your valuable time
hoping that it will come on its own. You simply cannot keep waiting for the day
when you will be able to rejoice and say that you made it happen.
You need to
understand what successful people are made of. They are all determined and assertive.
Both these attributes kindle positivity. Successful people plan for their so
that they are not taken by surprise at any given moment. Most people are unable to emulate them and
opine that success comes to people only if they are well-connected or luck
favours them. They are unable to appreciate the success achieved by them and
the causative factors that brought it about
Remember that
success is not contingent on luck and that there is no stipulation on who will
taste it and who will not. However, attaining success is no child’s play. If
you follow certain basic tenets, you too can be successful. And any deviation from
them will make things difficult from you. These imperatives are:
· Always count on success: Most
of us have serious doubts on our own capabilities and forget that having
confidence in own self is inescapable to achieve success. There should be an
assertion from within that one can really do anything to attain success. Nobody
will ever do that for you. It is only confidence alone that facilitates getting
over difficult situations and in the process infuses optimism for a bright
future. Can anything be done to acquire or increase confidence? It may take
perhaps less than an hour to get to know where you stand; a written introspection
will put the facts straight. You should jot down what your career has been all
about in a candid manner and how you perceive your ideal life. A truthful
account, will indicate to you a fairly detailed and meticulous depiction of the
life you desire to lead. Whenever you experience a feeling of dejection or
sense that your confidence level is going down, this description should
automatically be thought of.
· Adopt a dynamic mode: Having
reposed confidence in yourself and ascertained a model of success in your
career, it is high time to search for and get a hold of specifics and
essentials. One should now be considering how to march forward to make that
model into a reality. The moment you have drafted a line of action, you have
won half the battle. For example, you may be seeking to change your career. Are
you suitably qualified for it? It is likely that you may require going through
additional training; the costs involved for the same should be planned for. A
pragmatic evaluation of these issues should be made note of along with what you
steps you should be taking. A dynamic mode implies implementing those steps.
· Bestow yourself with success: Successful
individuals do not postpone making efforts. Their confidence manifests when
they assert by saying only "I will". If you have made up your mind to
do something and have decided on how to go about it, you just have start doing
it with all the strength at your command. You may get distracted but then
determination entails not falling prey to such interruptions and interferences.
This would call for a great degree of steadfastness and the ability to decline,
when the situation so warrants. For a person who lacks nerve, it is indeed
difficult to decline, cry off or refuse; but with little effort, this quality
can be acquired.
· Be aware of your primary concerns: You
may have made a plan and are totally committed to implementing it. But there
would be various contingencies and alternatives too. There is thus a need to
categorize them in a viable priority. If the plan made by you is pragmatic, a fairly
long list of actions required to undertaken by you will be evident. However,
you may not be able to undertake each and everything simultaneously. When to do
what or what to do when, this is what needs to be decided by deliberating on
each of them. Issues related to their criticality and time required to take
them to their logical conclusion will have to be considered. Actions that are
considered as not having immediate impact can well be put off for
implementation subsequently.
· Be forward looking: There
is nobody who can expect a bump-free career journey. There will be moments and
circumstances when you will not be able to act at all. Such inability will be
brought about by several reasons; you could well be plagued with fears and
reservations as also difficulties. If you are prevented from working with the
desired enthusiasm, you should start reflecting on the plan that has been made
earlier. Efforts should be directed to get the best from the first step itself.
It is important that you keep the larger mosaic in mind and in the process,
view your efforts that have been put in. This would serve as a motivation to not
only move forward but also be hopeful about the shape of things to follow.
The crux of the
matter is that one should be strongminded, unyielding and unwavering in your life.
Your capabilities are your biggest assets and you need to be confident of them.
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