Choosing a career is a Herculean task and when you choose one it is equally difficult adjusting to a new environment. However, things can be easy and smooth sailing if you are well prepared and well-geared for your work and workplace. Success will be yours to kiss then.
Saturday, 24 November 2012
Invest in yourself
“I'm learning all the time. The
tombstone will be my diploma.”
-- Eartha Kitt
You can live your
life in two ways – either go through it or grow through it. The first method
will lead you nowhere but the second will, for which you need to invest in
yourself. Ab initio, the need for such
investment does not find much reason amongst people. But it is an inescapable
requirement to be successful in your life and career alike. Here is why:
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Maximum returns: You can invest in the share market or buy property. The
returns could be high, but true returns come to you if you invest in yourself
and bring about an improved ‘you’. That brings opportunities knocking your door
and you are able to boost every possible thing that is necessary for your
career advancement..
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There is none above you: Conjecture this – there is a company called ‘Myself Private
Limited’ – and you are its whole-sole boss. It is thus your prime
responsibility to guarantee your company’s stability and foster its success. How
do you do this? You will have to draw up a line of action, act upon it
conscientiously and safeguard the investments that you have made.
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Your worth swells: You need to create two portfolios. While the first should
record all your pecuniary details to include assets and liabilities, the second
should summarize all your skills and talents as also obsessions and USPs. If you invest in the second portfolio, you
will be able to augment your net value; and an increased net value will
automatically raise your assets in the first portfolio.
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You become eminent: If you do not exercise your capabilities optimally, greatness
will elude you and this will be disastrous by all counts. You can always
appreciate your power of eminence by becoming conscious of your faculties and
aptitude; and more importantly by investing in your currently latent but
otherwise budding attributes.
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You can attain what you dream: The purpose and objectives of your career and life alike
cannot be left to remain in the realms of your desires. A career that is
botched up has immense likelihood of upsetting your objectives in life. Your
investment in yourself is a true manifestation of your pledge to attain
whatever you dream for and which will be brought about by it.
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You can author your prospects: It is you alone who has to shape up your career. If you
invest in yourself, you will enjoy lucidity of thoughts, supremacy of action
and means of enforcement – all for your better tomorrow. However, you will have
to be venturesome because a faint heart never won a fair lady.
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The world is intricate: Despite the confidence you may have in you and your
enthusiasm to go it all alone notwithstanding, you will still need external
assistance. Therefore, you also need to identify others whom you can invest in
– they will be your friends, philosophers and guides in your way forward.
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Seeking help is alright: You cannot carry on with your vulnerabilities forever. You
have to be cognizant of your weak-spots; and hence if you get into the mode for
self- development and perfection, seeking assistance in areas that are not your
forte is always recommended..
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Time only will tell: What happens tomorrow can only be speculated. Some day years
later, perhaps you will recall your past – good and bad times both. Having
invested in yourself, you will feel better poised and confident to take on all
the challenges that your career and life have to offer.
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You are on your own: In
the journey of your life and career, you are unaccompanied and will have to
work single-handedly. If you win or lose, the person affected will be you. If
you invest in yourself, you stand to benefit because nobody will ever be
willing to do so.
Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life but the lives of others around you as well. Moreover, it will pay you for the rest of your life.
Saturday, 17 November 2012
Don’t indulge in self-sabotage at work
There would be several occasions when while at work, you may be knowingly
or unknowingly emasculating yourself with your actions and activities. This
type of conduct precludes your optimum functioning; in addition your co-workers
and others are afforded a chance to disregard you as an individual entity. But
if you become responsive to yourself, display determination and take
initiative, self-sabotaging behaviour can be played down. Here is what you
should do:
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Understand how you sabotage yourself: You harm and
incapacitate yourself and your reputation by:
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Focusing on off-putting aspects: At work, you talk to co-workers;
the subject matter, ideas and premises of all dialogues remain unchanged. You
concentrate on what is adverse about your circumstances as opposed to what is
favourable. Also, the focus is on what is improbable rather than what is feasible.
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Getting into effort-tendency snares: There is no person who does not have bad working traits; they invariably
lead you into snares. For example, putting off for tomorrow what can be done
today; deliberate delay in completion of work; slapdash talks and
correspondence; and a generally lackadaisical approach to work are not
desirable and lead you into tight spots.
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Paying attention to your jinx: There would be evil eyes around you and who would repeatedly tell you
about your incapability and vulnerability. Their mere sight could serve to
reduce your self-confidence and consequently disrupt your growth,
subconsciously though.
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Say ‘NO’ to negative conduct: Having comprehended
various ways through which you can sabotage yourself, you now have to decide
specific behaviours that need to be built up. You need to understand that there
are some behaviours that can be improved with relative ease. For example, your
lackadaisical approach to work can be dispensed with but if you have been
psychologically afflicted with restrictive ideas, it will be a long drawn-out
process to get rid of them. You should always keep in mind how certain forms of
conduct can be the cause of your professional downfall anytime. You should
pledge your individual honour and vow not to ever put up with any negative
actions.
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Always shore up optimistic conduct: You need to bring into
play support systems that give encouragement to constructive actions and
facilitate shunning of negative ones. This can be achieved if you:
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Take cognizance of self-sabotage: You should become conscious of yourself at the very moment you realize
that you are undercutting yourself. If you find yourself landing in a trap or
acquiescing to a jinx, you should shake yourself out of them. The best way to
boost your own alertness and responsiveness is by giving yourself a pin prick
every time you feel that you are reverting to your old mould.
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Stay away from inducements: If you detach yourself
from settings that promote behaviour patterns which you are striving to alter,
you will find that you will perform better. For example, if you have been
meeting the same people during tea-break and indulging in condemnation, it will
be worthwhile to shift company.
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Devise methods to encourage positive conduct: You should conceive and formulate ways and means to reduce your negative
behaviours. You can advance deadlines to take care of your tendency to postpone
things or introduce cushion time in your schedule to cope up with violation of
punctuality norms. Likewise, for every negative conduct, you should be able to
discern corrective measures.
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Think about your successes: You should ponder over your successes
objectively; this can be done by going through appreciation letters,
congratulatory messages, certificates awarded and discussing them with people
who were a part of your triumphant moments.
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Seek help of a counselor: If you feel that extraneous factors
are continuing to bother you, there is no harm if you seek help of a counselor.
For example, if somebody de-motivates you from taking up a particular
assignment, it is only a neutral person like a psychiatrist who will be able to
restore your confidence to look challenges straight into their eyes.
You should remember that the source of and way-out from self-sabotage is
one and the same – you. If you can gain control over your negative conduct by handling
them well, you will be able to let your positive attributes surface and be
appreciated by others.
Work hard, work smart
If you work hard, you are surely
bound to be noticed and appreciated; to some extent, it will facilitate your
career progress. This is because hard work makes you focus on your job and
without focus, your effort will be disjointed. It also implies devoting long
hours to your job, but does that make you efficient and bring true recognition?
Rather than just working hard, you
also need ways and means to be smartly adept at your job. This is because:
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Smart
work helps you achieve your purpose: Unfortunately, you may strive, toil
and sweat; but credit may still elude you. And credit is one of the major
causative factors for success. You may exert to keep abreast with all workplace
developments and try to perform accordingly; however, doing just that may not
for sure guarantee you a rise or make you an expert to engage yourself in an
independent enterprise.
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Working
hard offsets your work-life balance: For example, you may neglect your
personal well-being or overlook your domestic matters; the adverse effects of
such disregards may not seem of significance today, but will strike you in a
big way after some time. That is the time you will repent for not maintaining a
proper work-life balance.
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Your quality
of life is influenced by stiff endeavours: Prolonged working hours impose
inherent demands to exert more. This can lead to exhaustion, nervous tension
and despair. You may end up being in a perpetual state of gloominess and
despondency.
Do you aspire for the above
conditions in your life? Surely, no! So, the question is how can you escape
from your present approach and start working smartly? Here is how you can do
so:
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Seek
assistance: Everybody harbours a
hidden desire to rise in an organization and claim credit. In your pursuit
towards excellence and success, you definitely require advice, encouragement
and help from others. Assistance can manifest itself in several ways – direct
and indirect – and help you stay focused on your work. While members of your
family can do so by taking care of your personal needs, your co-workers can help
by rendering professional support, including sharing your workload,
particularly in spheres in which you may not be practiced.
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Set
priorities: You have to take care of
vital things in your life based on their exigency before you address
insignificant matters. This is what priorities are all about. This calls for
arranging your daily routine appropriately and attain the maximum as you focus
your skills to a particular aspect. You are more charged up to address important
matters as the day begins; that is why important activities are scheduled early
so that you are impelled to deal with remaining issues in a superior manner
rather than haphazardly.
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Have
achievable objectives: Your first
step need not be a big leap. It is never advisable to try achieving several
objectives in one go. However, if they are inter-related and are mutually
supported, you may be able to do so. Therefore, it is always better to select
one or maximum two objectives at any given time and devote your entire effort in
attaining them. In case you attempt to take on several goals simultaneously,
all that you would achieve would be indistinct pricks; in the end you would
have made very minimal progress. And it is your progress at work that will give
you happiness.
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Have
respite: Working twenty hours a day
will take its toll. There are stories of business magnates who did so, but such
instances are exceptions. People may have been successful in creating a
monumental domain for themselves, but surely things could have been greater if
they took breaks. Indulging in pursuits that are tenuously imaginative or that
call for intense deliberations is alright, you will not attain absolute success
if you refrain from putting your feet up. Leisure activities rejuvenate you to
perform optimally at work.
Remember that being happy at work
is a result of your decision to be happy. You have to change the very
relationship you have with your mindset. You will be happy if you get up in the
morning and go to bed at night; and during the day do whatever you want to do.
That is what being smart is actually all about.
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