If
you peep into the lives of people in the quest of doing well in their careers,
you will find that most of them invariably dream big and seek more than the
ordinary. And such people attain whatever they aspire for. Their outlook and
disposition is such that success comes to them on a continual basis.
You
may harbour varying ambitions and aim to achieve different objectives. But if
you engage in the some fundamental actions, you will find that success comes to
you at all stages in your career journey. The actions per se will help you know
and appreciate your precise aspiration in life; steer you in the correct
direction to carve out your individual professional distinctiveness; and help
you to muster the desired backing in the eventuality of a tough going. These
actions are:
·
Let your worries be converted to
motivating factors: You
should know how to convert your fears into hutzpah, qualms into certainties,
reservations into confidence and apprehensions into encouragement. Such a
dexterity will help you look challenges that you may encounter straight into
the eyes and deal with them assertively. The crux of the matter is that you
should learn to be more liable, in control and adept. You should view all
experiences, howsoever trivial or big, as learning experiences. Should you
interrupt or put your feet up and not be able to make use of your experiences
in the correct manner, the success that should rightfully be yours will always
elude you. It is essential that you find ways and means to revolutionize all
negative aspects into positive matters so that you can change, succeed and
prosper.
·
Have no ambiguity about your
objectives: Being
clear about your aims is an important prerequisite to do well in life. You
ought to have no doubt about what is relevant to you and what you seek. In
continuation, you should also be clear about what you will be ready to
sacrifice for the purpose. Your objectives have to be clearly defined. You
simply cannot say, “I want be something different’ or “I want to do something
that carries weight.” You will have to introspect and determine what that
‘something’ means to you – both in individual and precise contexts. Today, when
people do not succeed in their lives and careers, they make no efforts to find
out what they are actually worth and cut out for. If you are clear about these
issues and have confidence in the relevance of your visualisations, windows of
opportunities for immense growth will automatically open up for you.
·
Pledge complete devotion: No success will come to you if you
waver in your devotion and sincerity. You have to be venturesome so that you
display dynamism when otherwise the general atmosphere is static. This does not
mean that you should adopt a reckless approach; mid-term corrections will have
to be applied without fail. The implication is that you should anticipate
problems and obstacles; and know in advance who to contact for assistance and
guidance. It goes without saying that your devotion should be of a high order
towards all activities that you indulge in. A flexible approach is what is
recommended so that you are able to fill up voids pertaining to your
shortcomings. Remember that people who are aware of their shortcomings but work
conscientiously to overcome them enjoy greater chances to succeed in their
endeavours.
·
Communicate assertively: Successful people are invariably
great narrators. They can hold audiences spell-bound. When they talk, their
speech serves to enthuse others to take a leaf out of their books. Successful
people are generally clear about what they are engaged in; interestingly,
people who get drawn towards them also harbour similar standpoints. When
successful people speak, they know what every word uttered means and are able
to ensure that no one gets antagonised. Communicating effectively also means
giving a patient hearing and calls for good negotiating skills. It is through
the power of your word, spoken or otherwise, you build good rapport, gain
widespread support and beget cent per cent loyalty.
·
Impose your boundaries: When you have no doubts about what
you seek, you will have to be robust enough to safeguard your boundaries; stick
to your main concerns and urgencies; and make your intent and whatever is
essential for your success known to all. There are thousands of people who are
otherwise smart and intelligent but are unable to communicate their intents,
their clarity of objectives notwithstanding. They just get carried away; in
other words, they give up and concede. There are several contributing factors
for such surrenders, yet men and women out to do well in their careers should
be able to overpower their apprehensions, insecurities and other allied
feelings. They should display strength and stand up for what is right and they
deserve; should things not work out in their favour, there is no harm in
demanding what is due to you.
·
Cultivate & foster good associations: During your career journey, you
cannot afford to be aloof and isolated. You will never be in a position to
attain you objectives and realise your visions all by yourself; you will
require outside support. To be able to elicit support, you will have to spare
time for others so that you are able to generate a mutually advantageous state
of affairs whose common values are conviction, trustworthiness and uprightness.
It should not be forgotten that in your way up in a competitive world, you have
to be cautious enough to not display one-upmanship in any form. This also calls
for a strict discard of sycophancy. The important point is that dishonesty in
any form will not boost your development and success; you will have to play the
game by adhering to the laid down rules.
It
will be difficult for you to taste success sans actions highlighted above. It
is not that you will not move ahead at all, but the journey would be full of
problems, resulting in a feeling of avoidable disenchantment. Therefore, you
need to engage in them with all sincerity at your command.
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